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@very-rusty said
I think she goes a bit further than speaking up for herself.

Some would call her rude, I say she is just being herself probably the same way out in the real world too, or could be completely different timid and afraid.

-VR

You don't know me, you know nothing about me, stop presuming you do. You're always predictably wrong.

@suzianne said
She still might be in there, perhaps with a little enticement she could be tempted. It's never too late, you know...

When this RHP ladies night hits the Tavern it's gonna be a big night!

@suzianne said
You don't know me, you know nothing about me, stop presuming you do. You're always predictably wrong.

All I can know is what you say, and from what I can see you have had issues in the past on your self-esteem which you were able to conquer congrats on that, but don't pick at people makes you look like a bully. Going after me all the time, where does that get you exept for a few thumbs up? Now, that I know you a little bit, I am looking at you in a whole different light. You may find showing a little kindness along the way goes a long way!

-VR

@torunn said
Thanks for your nice words, Suzie, but most things are too late for me. It's not that I have given up, it's just that I can't change much now for many reasons.

I understand. Making your own peace with the world is its own reward.

Maybe a new hobby? Passion comes from many sources.

@petewxyz said
When this RHP ladies night hits the Tavern it's gonna be a big night!

Well there is torunn and kewpie couquette!!!! 😉

I know I am leaving out some people my apology in advance!!!

-VR

@very-rusty said
Torunn not answering the question doesn't make it go away, just makes more questions.

-VR

You'd make more friends if only you knew when to shut up.

@suzianne said
You'd make more friends if only you knew when to shut up.

What makes you think I am here to make friends?....I don't really have plans on meeting anyone. Perhaps you should learn to stop telling people to shut up, as I've seen you in debates I know I am not the only one you say that too, and usually when you are on the wrong end of a bantering session.

-VR

@very-rusty said
Suzie Q, insults people nothing to do with self-esteem that I can see. I think you're more of a lady and don't mind saying so in the Public forum.

-VR

I call them as I see them, Rusty.

Most men really aren't that different from each other, it is often only a matter of degree. And "being a lady" doesn't have much to do with that. Men are still men.

@very-rusty said
Well that certainly does explain alot about you. Perhaps I should take it easy on you in the future!

-VR

You mocking PTSD now?

Is that where you're at?

@ghost-of-a-duke said
You mocking PTSD now?

Is that where you're at?

LOL@ goad, don't try twisting words!

It just isn't going to work or are you going to get an answer as it is a silly question to being with.

-VR

@suzianne said
I call them as I see them, Rusty.

Most men really aren't that different from each other, it is often only a matter of degree. And "being a lady" doesn't have much to do with that. Men are still men.

What qualities make you a lady Suzie Q?

-VR

@suzianne said Failure comes, but it yields to determination. That's one of the biggest lessons I ever learned.

Giving up is failure. Refusing to give up defines who we really are.

@neilarini said
Giving up is failure. Refusing to give up defines who we really are.

I may not call giving up a failure but it certainly takes more strength to fight it.

@very-rusty said
What qualities make you a lady Suzie Q?

-VR

Depends on your personal definition of a lady, doesn't it?

I might not want to match your picture of a lady.

I think, given what women put up with from men, that all women should be automatically given the same respect that comes with the word 'lady'. Your definition is far from the only one. In my definition, two X chromosomes is enough.

@neilarini said
Giving up is failure. Refusing to give up defines who we really are.

Yes, I've heard it that 'It matters not how many times you get knocked down. What's important is how many times you get back up.'